There comes a time in our lives when money, health and relationships fail us when we instinctively realize we are heading for a crash or breakdown. When emotions may rule the day obliterating rational thought.There are many factors that bring us to this place of despair.

Despair is natures signal,that the time has arrived to stop pause and rethink. Without stopping we can't pause and without pausing it becomes impossible to rethink things. We invite you to stop here for a while. There is always light at the end of the tunnel, no matter how dark it may seem.

After personal experience and much research I found the most common causes of despair to be money, relationships, health, death and grieving. Money and the lack of it brings with it the most unbearable misery, money is such an essential commodity in the modern world, even if you hate it, you must have it to Seek out some kind of existence, even health and relationships bear the brunt of the lack of money.

The answers and solutions to all the above, as hard as it may sound, lies within ourselves. Once we have stopped we can unpack all of our baggage, to pause is a powerful state it allows you to calmly look at what is, look on from the outside and in so doing we reach the solutions, somehow once again we instinctively realize that three quarters of the baggage we have been carrying around with us has just been weighing us down.

Now the time has arrived to Rethink and do what is required to move on to a happier existence others
may help and inspire us but is essentially ourselves, that must take the decision to change despair into positive action. Faith is the substance of things hoped for evidence, of things unseen. The providence which handicaps us always, comes to show us what to do. It has the power to change weakness into strength.

It somehow proves that despair has been in existence for a long time when, the quality of life was much simpler than it is today.

Imagine having to get a message to someone in a distant place before Morse code was invented. Today we just reach out to find instant solutions.

Some inspirational quotes for you to consider when, stopping to pause and rethink relationships or any other problem you may be wanting to solve.

"Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible." Unknown

Work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt and dance like no one is watching."
~ Randall G Leighton

"Never give up on something that you can't go a day without thinking about."
~ Unknown

"Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself."
~ Unknown

"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place"~ Unknown

"Experience is not what happens to you; it is what you do with what happens to you."
~ Aldous Huxley

"Yesterday's the past, tomorrow's the future, but today is a gift. That's why it's called the present."